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issue #26 | date: 11/5/2025

Editors Note

For years, I thought I wasn't "leadership material."

I wasn't the person who commanded rooms. I didn't have booming confidence. I hated being the center of attention.

Every leadership book and LinkedIn post seemed to celebrate the same archetype:

Bold. Decisive. Charismatic. Loud.

That wasn't me. So I assumed leadership wasn't for me.

Then I worked for a CTO who barely spoke in meetings. When she did, people leaned in. Her influence was undeniable—not because of charisma, but because of consistent, quiet competence.

She once told me, "The loudest person in the room is rarely the most effective. Real leadership is about making better decisions, not louder declarations."

That reframed everything.

In this issue:

  • Why quiet leadership is underrated (and often more effective)

  • How to build influence without dominating the room

  • The power of strategic silence and thoughtful presence

  • Jobs for people who lead through wisdom, not volume

Let's reclaim leadership for the rest of us.

Phedra Arthur Iruke

Editor in Chief

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🏆 Top Picks of the Week (Hand-Picked, High-Impact Roles)

🔹 Chief of Staff
Company: Snif
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Company: Centene Corporation
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Reporting directly to the health‑plan president and CEO, this role organizes governance structures, leads strategic initiatives, researches new opportunities and risks, and serves as a liaison between executive leadership and stakeholders. Duties include supporting board committee activities, drafting communications, coordinating staffing structures and monitoring plan performance. Centene recently reported strong revenue growth and continues to deliver value for members while investing in community programs. The company has been recognized as one of America’s greatest workplaces and launched mobile‑clinic programs to bring healthcare to underserved communities. Joining Centene offers influence within a mission‑driven organization navigating large public health plans and community impact.

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Location: Remote – United States
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Company: Apex Group
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Apex Group, a global financial‑services provider, seeks a Director to oversee major initiatives across its operations and technology functions. Reporting to the Global Head of Program Management and Governance, you’ll align projects with strategic goals, develop detailed program plans, manage resources and budgets, mitigate risks, liaise with stakeholders, ensure quality, and foster continuous improvement across cross‑company teams. Qualifications include Six Sigma certification, PMP, experience in financial services and proficiency in project‑management tools; the role is fully remote with a competitive salary plus bonus. Apex Group has been expanding rapidly, acquiring tokenisation leader Tokeny to accelerate digital‑asset finance and completing the acquisition of MJ Hudson’s fund‑services units to broaden its cross‑jurisdictional capabilities. These moves underscore the firm’s ambition to build digital infrastructure and advanced fund‑management solutions—growth that the new program director will help operationalize.

📌 IC & Manager Roles

Role

Company

Location (City, State)

Format

Apply (with direct link)

IT Project Manager

Mountain America Credit Union

Sandy, UT

On‑site

IT Project Manager

Avispa Technology (for client)

Redwood City, CA

Hybrid – on‑site 2 days/week

Implementation Manager

HR Acuity

Remote – USA

Remote

Implementation Manager

Reputation

Scottsdale, AZ / Lehi, UT / San Ramon, CA

Hybrid

Technical Program Manager

Pryon

New York City, NY / Boston, MA / San Francisco, CA

Remote

Technical Program Manager

ADT

Blue Bell, PA

On‑site (full‑time)

Technical Program Manager

GE HealthCare

Aurora, CO

On‑site (full‑time)

Change Manager – Finance

ServiceNow

United States (Remote/Flexible)

Remote or flexible

Change Management Manager

Clean Earth (Enviri Corp.)

United States

Remote

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Euna Solutions

Atlanta, GA

Hybrid

Product Operations Manager

Thatch

Remote – USA

Remote

Product Operations Manager

Multi Media, LLC (Chaturbate)

Remote – USA

Remote

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The Problem: Important decisions get made in meetings, Slack threads, and hallway conversations—then everyone forgets what was decided and why.

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Real Use Cases:

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Visionary Voices

📝 Susan Cain, Author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts

Quote: "There's zero correlation between being the best talker and having the best ideas." (Source: TED Talk: The Power of Introverts)

Susan Cain didn't set out to write a leadership book. She set out to answer a personal question: Why does the world reward extroversion when so many brilliant people are quiet?

The result was Quiet, a book that's reshaped how we think about leadership, influence, and who gets to have a voice.

Her core argument: We've built a culture that overvalues charisma and undervalues depth. The consequence? We promote the wrong people, make worse decisions, and burn out the introverts who could be our best leaders.

On Quiet Leadership:
Susan argues that introverts often make better leaders than extroverts—especially in complex, high-stakes environments. Why?

  • They listen more than they talk (better information gathering)

  • They think before they speak (better decision quality)

  • They empower others instead of dominating (better team performance)

  • They're comfortable with solitude (better strategic thinking)

Research backs this up. Studies show that introverted leaders often outperform extroverted ones when managing proactive teams—because they create space for others' ideas instead of drowning them out.

On the "Extrovert Ideal":
Susan calls out the corporate world's bias toward extroversion: the open offices, the constant meetings, the assumption that leadership = charisma.

But here's the problem: The best thinking doesn't happen in brainstorm sessions. It happens in quiet, focused work.

She cites studies showing that group brainstorming actually reduces creativity compared to individuals working alone and then sharing. Why? Social pressure, groupthink, and the loudest voices dominating.

On Leading as an Introvert:
Susan's advice for quiet leaders:

  1. Play to your strengths – Deep thinking, careful analysis, and one-on-one connection are leadership skills

  2. Communicate in your medium – If you're better in writing than speaking, write more. Async leadership is valid.

  3. Create structures that amplify your voice – Use frameworks, documentation, and systems so your thinking spreads without you having to repeat yourself constantly.

  4. Don't fake extroversion – Authenticity builds trust. People can tell when you're performing.

What You Can Learn From Her:

  1. Quiet ≠ Weak – Thoughtfulness and restraint are strengths, not liabilities

  2. Depth > Volume – The quality of your thinking matters more than how loudly you share it

  3. Build systems that work for you – If you hate meetings, create async alternatives. Leadership adapts to your style.

Where to Learn More:

Why She Matters to Delivery Professionals:
Delivery leadership often rewards the wrong behaviors: being in every meeting, having all the answers, speaking first.

Susan's work gives permission to lead differently—through systems, documentation, strategic silence, and deep expertise. If you've ever felt like you don't fit the "typical leader" mold, her frameworks prove there's another way.

Final Word:
Susan Cain proves that leadership isn't about who talks the most—it's about who thinks the deepest. If you're the person who listens more than you speak, who prefers writing to presenting, who needs quiet to do your best work—you're not broken. You're exactly the kind of leader organizations need.

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📚 The Power of Quiet Leadership

Let's destroy a myth:

Leadership doesn't require charisma, extroversion, or commanding rooms.

Some of the most effective leaders are the quietest people in the organization.

They don't dominate conversations. They don't perform confidence. They don't need to be the center of attention.

Instead, they lead through depth, consistency, and systems.

Let's talk about how.

1. Why Quiet Leadership Works

The research is clear:

A study by Adam Grant (Wharton) found that introverted leaders delivered better outcomes than extroverted ones—when managing proactive teams. Why? Because they listened more, created space for others' ideas, and didn't dominate the room.

Another study showed that introverts make up 40% of the population but only 2% of senior executives. That's not because they lack leadership ability. It's because organizations reward the wrong behaviors.

Here's what quiet leaders do differently:

They think before they speak
Extroverted leaders process by talking. Introverted leaders process internally—and when they speak, it's more considered.

They build systems, not cults of personality
Quiet leaders don't rely on charisma. They create frameworks, documentation, and processes that scale without them.

They empower, not dominate
Extroverted leaders often solve problems themselves. Quiet leaders create conditions for others to solve problems.

They prioritize depth over breadth
Quiet leaders go deep on fewer relationships, building trust through consistency rather than networking widely.

The result?
Quieter leadership often produces more sustainable, scalable organizations.

2. The Quiet Leader's Playbook

If you're not the loudest voice in the room, here's how to lead effectively:

Strategy 1: Lead Through Documentation

The Problem:
Charismatic leaders can repeat their vision in 100 meetings. Quiet leaders can't—and shouldn't have to.

The Solution:
Write it down. Once.

How to do it:

A. Document your thinking

  • Write strategy docs, decision frameworks, and principles

  • When someone asks "why did we decide this?", point them to the doc

  • Update docs as thinking evolves

B. Make your writing public (internally)

  • Post strategy docs in shared wikis, Slack channels, or team drives

  • Encourage comments and discussion async

  • Let the writing speak for you in meetings you're not in

C. Use writing to replace meetings

  • Instead of a 1-hour alignment meeting, write a 1-page doc and get async feedback

  • Instead of presenting live, share a pre-recorded Loom or detailed deck

Example:

Loud Leader: Explains the Q2 strategy in 15 different meetings to 15 different teams.

Quiet Leader: Writes a 2-page Q2 strategy doc. Posts it. Says: "I'm happy to discuss, but everything's in the doc. Leave comments."

The Result: The quiet leader's time scales. The loud leader's doesn't.

Strategy 2: Build Influence Through Consistency

The Problem:
Charismatic leaders can sway rooms with a single speech. Quiet leaders can't—and that's okay.

The Solution:
Build trust through steady, reliable action over time.

How to do it:

A. Be the person who always follows through

  • If you say you'll do something, do it

  • Never overpromise—underpromise and overdeliver

  • Track your commitments visibly (share status updates)

B. Show up consistently in small ways

  • Regular 1:1s (even when busy)

  • Thoughtful responses to questions (even small ones)

  • Visible follow-through on team needs

C. Let your work speak

  • Deliver high-quality outputs consistently

  • Solve hard problems others avoid

  • Build things that last

Example:

Over 6 months, you consistently:

  • Unblock the team when they're stuck

  • Document key decisions clearly

  • Deliver projects on time

  • Provide thoughtful feedback in reviews

You never dominated a meeting. But everyone knows: if you own it, it'll get done right.

The Result: Trust compounds. People seek you out—not because you're loud, but because you're reliable.

Strategy 3: Use Strategic Silence

The Problem:
Many people feel pressure to contribute to every conversation. If you're quiet, you feel like you're not adding value.

The Solution:
Silence is value—when used strategically.

How to do it:

A. Listen more, speak less (but speak meaningfully)

  • In a 1-hour meeting, aim to speak 2-3 times

  • When you do speak, make it count (bring new perspective, reframe the problem, or make a decision)

  • Quality > Quantity

B. Use silence to create space for others

  • After asking a question, let silence sit. Don't fill it.

  • When someone struggles to articulate, give them time. Don't jump in.

  • In meetings, pause before responding. It signals thoughtfulness.

C. Observe first, then act

  • Before weighing in, notice: Who's dominating? Who's quiet? What's the real issue?

  • Then intervene strategically ("I'm noticing we haven't heard from [quiet person]. What do you think?")

Example:

Loud Leader in Meeting: Talks 60% of the time. Drives the conversation. Makes snap decisions.

Quiet Leader in Meeting: Talks 10% of the time. Asks clarifying questions. Synthesizes at the end: "Here's what I heard: [summary]. Does that sound right?"

The Result: The quiet leader is seen as thoughtful, inclusive, and strategic. The loud leader might be seen as dominating.

Strategy 4: Leverage 1:1 Relationships

The Problem:
Charismatic leaders build influence in group settings. Quiet leaders often struggle there.

The Solution:
Build deep 1:1 relationships instead.

How to do it:

A. Invest in 1:1 time

  • Regular 1:1s with direct reports, peers, and key stakeholders

  • Use 1:1s to understand people deeply (not just project updates)

  • Build trust through consistency

B. Influence happens in private conversations

  • Before a big meeting, align key stakeholders 1:1

  • After a tense meeting, follow up 1:1 to repair

  • Use 1:1s to share context, coach, and build alignment

C. Be the person people come to

  • When people have hard problems, they seek quiet leaders who listen deeply

  • Position yourself as a trusted advisor, not a loudmouth

Example:

Before a contentious exec meeting about org restructure:

Loud Leader: Shows up and makes their case loudly in the meeting.

Quiet Leader: Talks to 5 key execs in 1:1s beforehand. Understands their concerns. Shapes the proposal to address them. By the time the meeting happens, consensus is already built.

The Result: The quiet leader has more influence because they did the relationship work upfront.

Strategy 5: Build Systems That Scale Your Thinking

The Problem:
You can't be in every room. You can't explain your thinking 100 times.

The Solution:
Build systems, frameworks, and processes that encode your thinking.

How to do it:

A. Create decision frameworks

  • Document how you make decisions (prioritization rubrics, tradeoff matrices)

  • Train others to use them

  • Now your judgment scales without you

B. Build templates and playbooks

  • Project kickoff templates

  • Decision-making checklists

  • Communication guidelines

C. Codify principles

  • Write down your leadership principles (e.g., "Bias toward transparency")

  • Reference them publicly ("This aligns with our principle of...")

  • Let the principles guide decisions when you're not there

Example:

Loud Leader: Makes decisions case-by-case based on gut feel. Team waits for them to weigh in.

Quiet Leader: Creates a prioritization framework (Impact / Effort matrix). Documents it. Trains the team. Now the team makes prioritization decisions without waiting.

The Result: The quiet leader's judgment scales. The team is empowered.

3. The Unique Strengths of Quiet Leaders

Quiet leaders aren't just "extroverts who need to speak up more." They have distinct strengths:

Deep Listening
Quiet leaders notice what others miss—body language, tone, unsaid concerns. This makes them better at reading rooms and understanding people.

Thoughtful Decision-Making
They don't make snap judgments. They sit with complexity, analyze deeply, and make better calls.

Empowering Others
Because they're not dominating, they create space for others to shine. This builds stronger, more capable teams.

Calm Under Pressure
When others panic, quiet leaders stay steady. That calm is contagious and stabilizing.

Long-Term Thinking
Quiet leaders aren't chasing visibility. They're building systems, relationships, and foundations that last.

4. How to Advocate for Yourself (Without Performing)

The Challenge:
Quiet leaders often get overlooked for promotions because they're not "visible enough."

The Solution:
Make your work visible without performing extroversion.

Tactics:

A. Write monthly impact summaries

  • Share what you've delivered, problems you've solved, people you've unblocked

  • Send to your manager and key stakeholders

  • Let the data speak

B. Speak in the forums where you're strongest

  • If you're better in writing, share your thinking via docs and emails

  • If you're better in small groups, do 1:1s and small meetings

  • If you're better with data, use dashboards and presentations

C. Let advocates speak for you

  • Build relationships with people who will champion your work

  • When they mention you in meetings you're not in, that's visibility

D. Claim credit clearly (but humbly)

  • "I led this project. Here's what we achieved."

  • You don't need to be loud. Just be clear about your contributions.

5. When to Speak Up (Even If It's Hard)

The Truth:
Even quiet leaders have to speak up sometimes. Here's when it's non-negotiable:

A. When you have unique expertise

  • You're the only one who knows the answer

  • The decision will be worse without your input

B. When no one else is saying what needs to be said

  • There's an elephant in the room

  • Everyone's thinking it, but no one's speaking it

C. When silence would be interpreted as agreement

  • A bad decision is forming

  • If you stay quiet, you're implicitly endorsing it

D. When someone needs defending

  • A team member is being unfairly criticized

  • Your silence would be complicity

How to Speak Up:

  • Prepare ahead of time (write notes)

  • Lead with a question if possible ("Can I ask...")

  • Make it about the issue, not about you being right

  • Keep it brief and clear

6. Reframing "Quiet" as a Leadership Asset

Old Narrative: Quiet people need to be "more confident" or "work on executive presence."

New Narrative: Quiet leaders have distinct strengths that loud leaders lack. Organizations need both.

Reframes:

  • "You're too quiet" → "I'm thoughtful and don't speak unless I have something meaningful to add"

  • "You need to be more visible" → "I'm visible through my work, my writing, and the relationships I build"

  • "You don't command rooms" → "I create space for others to contribute, which builds stronger teams"

  • "You're not leadership material" → "I lead through systems, consistency, and depth—not charisma"

The Point:
Stop trying to be someone you're not. Lead in the way that plays to your strengths.

TL;DR: Quiet leadership isn't about overcoming introversion—it's about leveraging it. Lead through documentation, build influence through consistency, use strategic silence, invest in 1:1 relationships, and create systems that scale your thinking. Your strengths are listening deeply, thinking carefully, empowering others, and building lasting foundations. The loudest person in the room is rarely the most effective. Be the person who thinks the deepest, not the one who talks the loudest.

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